Here is what you need to know about dating and relationships as we get closer to the Aquarian Age.
The world and everything in it, including people, are comprised of vibrations. Each "thing" has its own vibratory rate. People are no different. What happens if you try to mix oil and water? I don't care how much you shake them up, they are never going to mix in a homogeneous way. Why? Because their basic natures and basic vibratory rates are so different that they will never harmoniously combine easily. People are the same. If your basic vibratory rate is so far different than someone else's, then you will never harmoniously "mix" with that person.
From my statistical analysis, 39% of the people you meet will have vibratory rates which are discordant to your own vibratory rate. Thus, these people are people you do not want an intimate relationship with. Why? Because no matter how much life shakes you up, you will never mix well together in a harmonious manner. Will you be attracted to them? Sure!! Probably so. But that doesn't mean you should be with them for long stretches of time. And you certainly don't want to live under the same roof with them. Why? Because, at the end of the day, when all other factors have been neutralized or eliminated, you are left with someone with whom your vibratory rate and theirs is discordant.
Why would you want to settle for someone whose basic vibratory rate is discordant with your own? Because you don't know any better. And the attraction you probably feel towards that person misleads you and tricks you into thinking that you and that person are compatible or good for each other. So people go from one bad relationship to another because they don't know how to separate attraction and thrills from genuine compatibility.
How does one determine the vibratory compatibility between two people? By using the technique I developed called "Dual Cosmodynes". This technique uses the positions of the planets in your natal horoscope and compares them with the positions of the planets in another person's natal horoscope and then performs the necessary calculations to determine how your vibratory rates (called harmony or discord) stack up. 39% of the people you meet are discordant with you. An average harmony score is about +10. 19% of the people you meet will have a harmony score of +45 or higher and 10.5% of the people you meet will have a harmony score of +60 or higher. So what sense does it make to be with someone with whom you are discordant when you have a good chance of finding someone whose vibratory rate is harmonious to your own?
Now, there are no 100% guarantees in life. And you could have a harmony score of +100 with someone and still not be able to live with them happily ever after. Why? Because people choose to live on many different levels, and if the level you have chosen to live on is too far different than the level your partner has decided to live on, well, then there will be problems at some time or another.
BUT, doesn't it make sense to avoid and weed out the 39% of the people with whom you are discordant and not waste time, energy, and money on them? Wait and find someone with whom you have harmony and then go for it and see where it leads. Avoiding the "losers" is perhaps more than half the battle in the game of dating and relationships.
Think about your past experiences and how much time, energy, and money you would have saved if you knew then what you know now. Now, skipping the "losers" might not teach you as much, but haven't you been through the pain of learning enough times? Wouldn't it be great at this point to put some of that learning into action, hopefully with a lot less pain?
Now, we are all "losers". Why? Because to 39% of the people out there, we are discordant. BUT, we are ALL "winners" to 10.5% or more of the people out there. It just depends on whom you choose to associate with. So stop feeling like there is no one out there for you or that you are a loser and won't be able to find a happy relationship. REMEMBER - you are a WINNER for someone out there (not to everyone, but to SOMEONE)! The numbers tell you all you need to know - you just have to be patient and willing enough to keep yourself "free" until a harmonious person comes along. When you meet someone new to whom you are attracted, my recommendation is to check as quickly as possible what your harmony or discord is with that person. If the harmony is +30 or more, then further investigate that person. If there is discord, then say "Thank you, but no thanks" and move on. It is difficult to find the right person when you are with the wrong person.
Teach these principles to your kids and they will thank you forever. You won't learn this in school, so be your own teacher.
There are desktop and website programs at http://www.astrowin.org that can calculate your harmony/discord with anyone you meet. Don't worry, I'm here to help you, not sell you something. Everything on my website is free for you to use.
Here's to your finding a harmonious partner. Good luck!
You can download (for free) any of my desktop astrology programs or sign up and create your own online database and analyze all you want. If all you need is one synastry chart with the calculations, then you can do that here or here.
If you like, visit my dating website at www.harmoniouspartners.com.
Read more about cosmodynes and dual cosmodynes here.